Monday, 3 November 2014

How to conduct yourself to your parents ????

Orchestrate your life ..........

May God give us sense of ability to follow these guidelines.


1. Put away your phone in their presence.

2. Pay attention to what they   are saying.

3. Accept their opinions.

4. Engage in their  conversations.

5. Look at them with respect.

6. Always praise them.

7. Share good news with them.

8. Avoid sharing bad news with  them.

9. Speak well of their friends  and loved ones to them.

10. Keep in remembrance the good things they did.

11. If they repeat a story, listen like it's the first time they  tell it.

12. Don't bring up painful memories from the past.

13. Avoid side conversations in  their presence.

14. Sit respectfully around  them.

15. Don't belittle/criticize their  opinions and thoughts.

16. Avoid cutting them off when they speak.

17. Respect their age.

18. Avoid hitting/disciplining  their grandchildren around  them.

19. Accept their advice and  direction.

20. Give them the power of  leadership when they are present.

21. Avoid raising your voice at them.

22. Avoid walking in front or ahead of them.

23. Avoid eating before them.

24. Avoid glaring at them.

25. Fill them with your appreciation even when  they don't think they  deserve it.

26. Avoid putting your feet up in front of them or sitting with your back to them.

27. Don't speak ill of them to the point where others  speak ill of them too.

28. Keep them in your prayers always possible.

29. Avoid seeming bored or tired of them in their presence.

30. Avoid laughing at their  faults/mistakes.

31. Do a task before they ask  you to.

32. Continuously visit them.

33. Choose your words carefully when speaking with them.

34. Call them by names they like.

35. Make them your priority above anything.

Parents are treasure on this land. Appreciate your parents while you still can.
Today lets make loads of prayers for our beloved parents, alive or deceased.

May God ease the burdens of our beloved parents,        

God remove their burdens due to debt,

God ease their pain,         

God heal them from all the sicknesses they're suffering from,

God never make them dependent on anyone besides YOU until their last breath,

We should respect and honour our parents.

Never hurt them, part of the reason of all the troubles they're undergoing is due to us.

Their debts are due to fulfilling our needs,

Their poor health is due to their efforts in giving us the best,

Their every breath is a sacrifice made for their children...

God bless our parents with Happiness.

Make a promise that u would at least do one thing today which will make YOUR parents happy.


(Oh, God have mercy upon them as they have raised me from the cradle)

May God bless our parents with good health, wealth, prosperity and blessings.



May God bless our parents.

P.S : Content courtesy : Whatsapp Group friends 

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